Swearing
We had a brief conversation about swearing at Bible study last night, and I've been reflecting on it ever since. Then I had Ephesians 4:29 land in my inbox today:
Do not let any unwholesome talk come out of your mouths, but only what is helpful for building others up according to their needs, that it may benefit those who listen.
Somehow this doesn't feel like a coincidence, so I'm taking it as prodding to raise the subject here.
I would consider myself as having a lower tolerance for swearing than most other people my age. An example: although I can understand that cr-p is now totally acceptable in many environments, I don't often use it myself, I feel 'dirty' when I do, and it does bother me when I hear it from my Christian friends.
What I'm wondering is,
- am I just being hyper-sensitive, and should I be more willing to engage in the world
- or should we as Christians watch what we say more carefully, so as not to offend people with anything but the gospel
- or is it just a matter of 'it doesn't really matter, stick with what you feel comfortable with' (eg Romans 14)